Appearance change Everything!😊

Hi ladies and gentleman! Today im so suck and nothing better to do but I got something that I wanna told you guys and I bet, its a little bit worth it to all of you to gain some knowledge from here...

Actually, I want to story this because I had inspired from someone that I couldn't or never to mentioned her name here but words "her" are quite enough to resembled that the person is a gurl..

Me and her do not have any related at all but little did I know, she  a bit envy with me or maybe jealousy. .Why I said like that?? Because I got texts from her and she questioning me those questions..At first I was shocked but when I thinking back, what wrong with you gurl? Are you sick?

She ask me supposed to act like married woman, A wife and mom for real and no need to act like youth..*what the fish*..

Jealous much??? Maybe she kept looking my lifestyle at FB and feeling nauseous after all so not my problem..

Yes, I admit yg I tak tau malu but perlu ke I act like makcik2 semata2 I nie mak budak..for me, slh mindset camtu..

Fyi, I like makeup and "Doll up" my face everytime I hang out with my hubby...dun get me wrong guys even at home, I prefer to doll up my face to look fresh infront my hubby so that he will never  go to another gurl..Some man more take a hard about the wife personality but the rest dun care..Its depends to others but in my case, hubby never to complain me but this is my own inisiative to tight hubby's heart in terms of personality..Yah, even him can accept me just who I am but im just make myself in comfy zone..

Too many experience that I heard and recently one of my friend went through an epic of trauma when her husband cheated on her.. At first she thought she failed to become a gud wife and always blame herself and she decided to make herself preggy again(3rd child) and big hope her husband will change towards her but after baby was delivered, her husband are just the same and the bad part, her husband more and more active cheated with 'bitch' without care about her even that time she through her confinement days..see, how cruel her husband right??

If you ask me ladies, preggy again to take attention from liar husband just a waste..waste in terms of time, healty and at the end, you just ruined your body and dun you ever assume that he will changes..I bet, maybe 1 out of millions man can appreciate her wife sacrifice..

For me, my friend's husband not so charming as you thought plus I dun think that his pocket full of thick notes but he can to grab the young gurl and yah, honestly I knew the desperate gurl and compare with my frens, the gurl was so ugly to be truth but the different is, her body figure can makes man melted and layer of makeup that putting on her face such as a perfect combined to attract a man..

Suddenly I remembered my mom said "tunggul kayu kalau disolek pun lawa"..

My point of view, why not we couldn't pampered ourself as beauty as we can? Dun let we old before age..

Back to my friend case,I dun know where to point my finger either to her or her husband but sometimes, she as a wife  do not care about her appearance and can you imagine guys,a forth years marriage and had a number of children, her age twenty something but look like 40th years old lady..

When I advise her nicely to care about her appearance but she said "ala,biarlah dah ade anak, mana ada masa nk wat tu semua"
Even I said its totally wrong about her statement plus she kept saying that her husband already elderly but people said that the man's life start at the age 35 above..You've heard that guys??

Yet, when her married life got problem and her hubby always said " tgklah penampilan awak tue, dah mcm org beranak 10",or "selekeh jer saye tgk awak nie".. that time she will feel like how hurtful the comment could be...Am I get wrong??

Sad to say,in this case, wife is more suffer than husband which is need to accept everything even its very bite to swallow..Only tears accompany...how sad...😔

Yes, a loyal husband can accept all the wife lackness but remember that, A man had a nature attitude that so- called as "EGO"..A man want her wife beautiful in every way, tough to break and should like a diamond..

And, he will never to feel embarrassed when walk in besides and never stole glances to others woman because for him, her wife is more and more good looking compare with others..

So,ladies..before you put all mistakes on your shoulder, do act..you should see yourself  in the mirror and spot your flaws..put all the laziness besides and just work on it! Try to captured your husband back..

And dun you ever gurl to practice "black magic" to subjecting your husband..it just a big sin and you'll be burnt in hell eventually plus the black magic is definitely not the ticket out of your miserable life...noted that!!

This is my opinions and sorry if what I wrote will make all of you couldn't agree with dat..

This post also to disgusting gurl which is always not satisfied with me...hope this can make you clearly...

And fyi, im happy with myself now..Who's care about the status?? As long im just being me, your word is nothing to me..sucks it up!!